One Trumper accused me recently of being disloyal to Trump, but I never swore an oath of loyalty to Trump. However, I did swear an oath to protect and defend the Constitution when I worked for the DoD. Trump is just another corruptible man. I supported him when he did something that I thought was right. I do not support him when he does something wrong. Im my opinion, he was wrong from the beginning to politicize the post-election process.
If you have a grievance, you have to use the legal process, whether you think the results were fair, or not. Even murderers go free in our legal system, if there is not enough evidence to convict them. However, in the states in question, it was Republican legislatures who approved the election results. It was Trump-dominated Supreme Court that threw out his lawsuits. So, I do not think it is legitimate to claim he was not heard. They heard his lies and propaganda only too well.
It was an illegal and unconstitutional path that Trump took, when he decided to undermine confidence in the election system and that he would raise a mob to intimidate Congress under the threat of violence in the hopes of overturning the election. I cannot support a person, who thinks he is above the law and the Constitution.
In my opinion, Trump is a pathologically narcissistic liar, a cheat and a propagandist. It does not matter if the Democrats, Black Lives Matter or antifa have also done things that are wrong or even worse. A pox on both their houses. Unless you want to descend into anarchy, chaos and mob rule, you have to support the constitutional system, not the man.
Patriotism is about supporting the system that the Founders blessed us with a quarter of a millennium ago. It is not about absolute loyalty to one very imperfect and pathologically egotistical man of today and putting him above the law and the Constitution.